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Hello: October has arrived and it’s time to leap forward to feel and look better by the end of 2017. Don’t you want to feel good, when you meet the serious black lady that you’ve been talking with on this website? Have you found a gym yet? There are plenty of gyms [...]
Hello Connecticut brother: Since  you’re a single guy if you’re reading this, I will focus on the benefits of fitness for a single man. Being in great shape attracts women. This is no secret. It doesn’t matter if you’re tall or short. Unless a women has low self esteem or is in [...]
So your dream Internet lover is a cad in real life?  That sucks.  But it’s happened to the best of us. It can be superficial, I have a friend who said that his date’s teeth turned out to be way bigger in person than her picture–like of the horsey variety. Another said [...]
Some people think that the profile summary on your dating page is no big deal.  I think it’s a deal breaker.  A friend of mine said that when she looks at a potential’s profile and sees “I’ll tell you later” winky face. Her advice? “Keep it moving, Sistren.  Buyer beware.” Overall, when [...]
Hey Connecticut TriState Black Singles! So there are many reasons why you may be 40+ and looking for love.  Maybe it’s your first time, maybe you’re divorced and getting back out there, maybe you’re widowed, or maybe you’ve been in a long-term relationship that ended and is just ready to get back [...]
Love is in the air.  What a relief. Coming off a divisive election, contentious inauguration, and show of solidarity Women’s March (reminiscent and just as awe inspiring as The Million Women’s March back in the 90s) it’s nice to think about something as simple as love in February—the true unselfish kind.  Like [...]
Hello single Connecticut brother: I’m Ben, a single guy from New York who enjoys both writing and staying fit. A widespread misconception about physically fitness is that exercise is the sole component. Of course exercise is very important, but diet plays an even bigger role. Calories consumed versus calories expended is what [...]