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So your dream Internet lover is a cad in real life?  That sucks.  But it’s happened to the best of us. It can be superficial, I have a friend who said that his date’s teeth turned out to be way bigger in person than her picture–like of the horsey variety. Another said [...]
Some people think that the profile summary on your dating page is no big deal.  I think it’s a deal breaker.  A friend of mine said that when she looks at a potential’s profile and sees “I’ll tell you later” winky face. Her advice? “Keep it moving, Sistren.  Buyer beware.” Overall, when [...]
Hey Connecticut TriState Black Singles! So there are many reasons why you may be 40+ and looking for love.  Maybe it’s your first time, maybe you’re divorced and getting back out there, maybe you’re widowed, or maybe you’ve been in a long-term relationship that ended and is just ready to get back [...]
Love is in the air.  What a relief. Coming off a divisive election, contentious inauguration, and show of solidarity Women’s March (reminiscent and just as awe inspiring as The Million Women’s March back in the 90s) it’s nice to think about something as simple as love in February—the true unselfish kind.  Like [...]
Hello single, Today, are you thinking a lot about black dating, Connecticut single? If snow buried has you, you’re swamped at work or fall in the middle, you’re not alone. Nevertheless, it’s time to think about your Valentine’s Day lunch and dinner. Only 12 days until you enjoy a special Valentine’s Saturday! [...]
Hey Black Connecticut Single: Let’s be candid. We’ve all had relationships before. And, whether long, brief, good or miserable, we are not in those relationships now. How do we use our past to help us as we seek love on this regional black online dating site? The answer is simple…Keep them in [...]
Hello my Connecticut Black Single Brothers and Sisters, Tell me what do you enjoy in August?  What soothes you? Why not de-stress this August weekend?   I love music. Don’t you?  I enjoy music ranging from classical to jazz to rap.  This weekend I’m in a Jazz mood.  The Side Door in Old Lyme may be the place for me this weekend. Where do black singles go? Perhaps I’ll [...]
Hello Black Connecticut Single,  Are you loving you some YOU? As an attractive black single adult in our society today, it’s rather easy to get caught up in the world of dating as you search for that special guy or gal. Yes, I realize that life can get lonely at times, but [...]
Yes, Connecticut black single, I’m talking to you. Stand up, get out of your comfort zone, and let everyone see you glow. Take a stroll in a park in Bridgeport, get a bite to eat at Chef Jeff’s Cuisine in Norwalk or do a little shopping in Hartford.  Whatever you select, do [...]