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Dear Black Single: Don’t you sometimes need a break for enjoying life and relaxing? How about surrounding yourself with some positive people? How about hosting a Kwanzaa dinner party? Give your friends and some relatives a call to bring everyone together. There is a lot more to life besides work. Also, being around such positivity […]
Dear Black Single, Still having movie and dinner dates? Hopefully, not. The movie theater is probably the worst place for any date. The problem with this scene is that it does not allow you and your date to speak to each other for a long amount of time. While I’ve discussed this before, people still […]
Enjoy “National Eat An Apple Day” on Saturday, black single! Share an apple with that special single who’s caught your eye! Donate applesauce fruit packs to your local food pantry! Celebrate, Matty
Hello black single: We wish to you a safe and enjoyable Labor Day Weekend! Take a moment to remember the work and sacrifices of A. Philip Randolph during this Labor Day Weekend. He did so much for our people AND for Mexican Americans, Native Americans, Puerto Ricans and poor whites. Learn and share interesting info […]
Dear Black Single, Do you have deal breakers, when you date? Boundaries for yourself and for others are okay. We all have our limits. Be honest with yourself! Deal breakers may help you prevent unhappy situations and maintain your sanity. Keep an open-mind and have fun dating outside of “your box”, but do not lose […]
Dear Black Single, How is your summer? Great, I hope. Are you going outdoors more, now? July provides a good time to take daily runs or walks. Sometimes we’re trapped in our daily routines and we forget to notice of things around us. It’s good to get out to embrace nature. Why not become one […]
Hello Black single, Happy 4th of July! Are you proud thinking about how black Crispus Attucks was the first American killed during the Boston Massacre? Are you proud that we have a black President? Are you troubled thinking about the Mother Emanuel AME Church, Eric Garner, Mike Brown, Kiki Gray and others? Happy 4th of July? What’s […]
Hello black single: Do you have more men or women as your friends? Have you noticed how frequently people mixup friendliness with flirting? Once lines blur, intentions become cloudy. Perhaps this explains why some women and men stick with their own. I think that this is fine, but it might hinder approaching the opposite sex. […]
Dear Black Single, Everybody has a backstory comprised of events that determine his or her actions today. Have you met someone who’s been laid off? How about someone with a…child on the way? Talk about complicated! No “perfect” story exists. And, if a man or a woman was “perfect”, he or she wouldn’t be single […]