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Hello: A common misconception about being physically fit is that exercise is the key. While of course exercise is highly important, diet plays an even larger role. Caloric intake vs. calories expended is what causes one to either gain or lose weight. For those of you whose goal is to gain muscle, you need to […]
Dear Black Single, Do you believe that dating is what you make it? That what you get out of it is what you put in? Some people don’t like to put in much effort because they are tired of the dating world. It’s understandable. Everyone wants to meet that special person, so when things don’t […]
Dear Black King, Unfortunately, a lot of women perceive men based on the actions of a small percentage: the ones who lie, cheat, and are promiscuous. The truth is, of course, not all men behave this way. There are true black kings, like you, out there ready to treat a black woman the way she […]
It’s incredibly inspiring to see black single men and women out enjoying life, getting busy with their careers, and also spending time with their families. It shows that, yes, while we do want to find our significant others, we still have to live our lives. Being “single” doesn’t mean being “lonely”. It means you haven’t […]
Hey guys, Despite the media’s portrayal of the perfect place to meet women being a bar or a club, I’m here to disagree and tell you why. First, how is there anything romantic about getting a person intoxicated to display interest? I’d much rather buy an individual a book at a bookstore. Second, meeting a […]
Dear black single: Do you ever feel the need to click the “in a relationship” box on Facebook? Or are you the type to just let it slide? With social media, it seems that once you tell the world you’re starting to see someone you have to send out updates on how everything is going, […]
Hello Black Single: Ever heard the quote, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach?” It’s amazing how what happens in the kitchen seems to determine our relationships. Question, how soon is it for a woman to cook for the man she’s interested in or dating? Now some might say she’s in love […]
Dear Black Single, What happens if you’re not interested? What is the easiest way to let someone down? Rejection is never easy, especially if you’re on the receiving side of it. Everyone says to give things a chance by going on a date a few times to get to know someone better. However, for some […]
Or is it? In the dating world, we probably learn more about ourselves than in other aspects of life. Mostly because you deal with other black singles and attempt to grow close with them. Take sharing. As kids, we’ve always been taught to share in school, church and home. For someone who grew up with […]
Dear Black Single, Have you dated someone that you’ve learned from? A relationship seems more meaningful when you’re learning from each other. It’s empowering to grow as you’re both contributing to each other’s physical, emotional and mental improvement. Then again, learning from the person you’re dating isn’t always positive. You might date someone and realize […]